Jafar Elsadiq Gibbons is with Tånîshå Thompson.5 hrs

She met the guy of her dreams: he’s smart, ambitious, cute… or so it seems.

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She lets her guard down, unprotected sex was great for a minute, she’s pregnant. All his qualities diminished.

Her body changes while he loses interest, the pregnancy takes on a toll, her hormones flying and he’s not understanding. He seeks comfort in everything but her.

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She cries at night while being restricted by the pregnancy. He’s out having fun, entertaining other females. She thinks, “I could’ve been much more if not”. It could’ve been her he’s out having fun with!

Fast forward, the kid is born, he’s there, momentarily. She likes the image of him and the child, her guard drops again, unprotected again, she trust him. Baby again. I can’t really fault her, in her head, she’s having sex with the man of her dreams.

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The same cycle repeats itself, he ain’t there. He actually goes and marry another woman. A woman with everything she couldn’t get to be because of circumstances obviously. She hates him. She sees him in her kids. Anything they say or do that she deem wrong, she hits them. In her head, she’s hitting him. The kids suffer that along with not having the other parent around.

Five kids in, for this same dude, while he’s cheating on his new wife. The pain he cause her, he don’t see it. And while it pains her, it also weakens her so more times than not, evidently, she gives in to that. Not once did any of his friends say, “yo, you doing wrong by that woman!” Not once did they say “stop!”

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She has to struggle with five kids all on her. Unable to complete high school, there’s not much a job she can do. She remained committed to ensuring that her kids receive an education to make themselves better than their dad. She give them a chance at life their dad wasn’t man enough to give them. She, she, she ???? she played the mom, dad, counselor, teacher and spiritual advisor. She… you see that woman! She ensured that none of her kids pay for the sins of her. I’m sure God has a place for women that strong!

My point of the story is: how can we, the younger generation, stem from such an environment yet repeat it? I say nay! OWN UP.

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You can’t not be ready for a child but ready for Unprotected sex. I don’t buy, I don’t get it.

Stop giving our BLACK QUEENS THE SAME MESSED UP STORY!

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Give them a chance at life! Give them life!

OUR BLACK KIDS NEED AN ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH THE BLACK FAMILY HAS BOTH PARENTS.

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To those already doing it, SALUTE. To those who not, we not full. Come on!

Happy Black History Month. I don’t celebrate the month but I thought this was necessary!

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Jafar Elsadiq Gibbons

President

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UGSS 2019-2020

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